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Most people are termed fools not for their lack of what to say but rather three very important things they always miss. That’s what today’s guide is all about. Helping you express the intelligence I know you full well possess. Its not making you smarter {because I know you are} but actually helping you express that intelligence to the whole world through just your speech.

1:What You Say.

There is a concept such as saying the right thing and saying the wrong thing. To become smart is to say something but only after you have thought it through. Quickly paced unthought unfiltered thoughts are often based on ego and pride rather than reason and logic. Slow down and think through your responses before you give them.

2:When You Say it.

You could have the smartest thing to say yet if you don’t find the right timing to say it. It all goes to waste. The entertainment industry knows this for sure. Comedians know that poor timing can turn a punch line into just another sentence. What you say is what makes you smart, when you say it, that’s what make you brilliant.

3:How You Say it.

You know presentation is great. That’s why you put so much effort in the first impression. You dress better than you will ever dress on the interview. You are most eloquent in a speech you have to say in front of everyone in school. You are in your best manners when about to meet your in laws. You know that how you present what you have, who you are and what you think about something will be completely lost in the transmission if you don’t present it right. Same applies to speech. You have the right thing to say. Its so well thought through. You have the right timing, no better time could present itself for you to say what you want. But your delivery is definitely going to be wrong, don’t say it.

Having been a counselor for the last eight years with couples, I’ve learnt you could have the right thing to say, esp in conflict. Have the perfect opportunity to say it, still during the argument. You say it and have it terribly backfire on you. Why? Maybe you sounded arrogant when you said it. Or you sounded like you didn’t care.

Have someone apologise to you in an I_Don’t_Care tone and tell me how authentic it felt.

When to say something makes you brilliant but how to say something makes you wise.

4:When You Say Nothing.

Ironically, you spend two years to learn to open your mouth and speak yet take a lifetime to learn when to keep it shut and just be silent. Having the right words to say is iron, knowing when to say it is bronze, knowing how to say it is silver but knowing when to say nothing at all, that my friend is GOLD.

This is what sets apart a wise man from a genius. Know when to use your words to solve your problems, which often times would be avoided if you kept your mouth shut before they happened. Learn when to use your words to heal but even more importantly, your silent presence to comfort.

Words can only take you so far. You hear only what you know when you speak. You learn from others when you listen.

Always remember, words are silver but SILENCE IS GOLD.

Be Genius.

Love,

Rousah Villah.